Here’s a common question I get asked when people learn about my 5 AM wake up time:
What do you do at 5 AM every morning?
The short answer is: Whatever I want! And the longer, more annoying answer is: It depends. My morning routine changes, depending on what mood I’m in and what type of day I want to have.
Some mornings I drive to the beach and go surfing. Other times I snuggle up on the couch and read my book for 3 hours. Sometimes when I’m extremely hungover I just sit and stare at the wall.
Match your mood to the day ahead. The morning sets the tone.
I’ve been getting up at 5am for over 800+ mornings. And I’ve discovered over time that whatever activities I do in the morning end up bleeding into my day. My mood, my mindset, my motivation, and my daily happiness are all set within the first few hours of every day.
You’ve probably heard the saying “Win the morning = win the day”. I believe this is true, but I don’t think it can be the motto for every single day of life. What if your goal for the day isn’t about winning?… What if it’s about relaxing? If you’ve just had 5 days in a row of absolutely crushing it and need to recharge your batteries, I don’t believe “win the morning” is the right message.
If “Win the morning = win the day” is true, then these sayings below are equally as important to know:
Relax in the morning = have a relaxing day
Morning appreciation = daily happiness
Lazy morning = lazy day
Healthy & fit morning = healthy & fit day
My personal activities and daily experience:
Here’s a nerdy chart I made to categorize and explain what I do in the mornings and what my day is like afterwards:
|If I do this in the morning…||My day usually turns out like this…|
Physical activities like:
|I tend to stand up straighter all day with better posture. I shower, dress nicely and feel good in my well-fitted clothes. Deep breathing with my chest out throughout the entire day. I generally feel like being outside under the sun the rest of the day. Attitude is strong and optimistic.|
Creative outlet activities like:
|Gets me thinking creatively all day. I’m relaxed, talking a bit slower, using better sentences and good vocabulary when I interact with people. I’m in a friendlier mood and want to be around others. Problem solving is easy on days like this.|
Relaxing activities like:
|Generally I have a slower, relaxing day. I might not shower and stay in my PJs until the afternoon. I eat whatever is convenient and it’s a bit harder to leave my comfort zone. It’s possible that I’ll cancel plans I have set with others on days like this so I can continue to recharge my batteries. I get bored and go to bed early. Days like this don’t happen too often.|
|Beast mode! Days like this I’m well organized, my goals are clear and time is very structured. I have appointments, I’m in a serious mood, and have a work hard/play hard attitude. I have a lot of self confidence on days like this and little room for time wasters. Can usually accomplish more in a single day than in an entire week. Will not take NO for an answer and ready to tackle any problem thrown at me.|
Mental health activities:
|I’m a happier person and pleasant to interact with. Everything starts with a smile. I tend to be more understanding and ask good questions. I call old friends for a long chat. Daydream a lot and have conversations with my wife about how lucky we are. Troubling situations don’t phase me on days like this, just roll right through the day.|
When I’m in a funk:
|Little things throughout the day can frustrate me. My language gets a little worse and I have to be careful around others. I tend to want to be alone and can bottle up my emotions a little.
***I obviously try to avoid days like this, but sometimes they do happen. It’s natural. The first step to bad moods is recognizing I’m in one! Then, slowly correct it and minimize negative emotions. Tomorrow is another day!***
Finding the balance:
Structure is good, and doing the same thing every morning is an important step to form habits. Structure is how I survived my first 30 days of getting up at 5am.
That being said, change is good also. I’ve changed a lot over the past couple years as a person, and my morning routines have changed also.
Now that I notice how influential mornings can be, I’m trying to do a little more of the things that turn me into a productive, happy, contributing member of society… And less of the things that are slowly turning me into a grumpy bum that nobody wants to hang out with.
Morning time is personal time.
At 5am, everyone else is asleep. Whatever you want to do is completely up to you. No one is watching, no one is judging, and there is no one to compete with. If you’re starting a 5am challenge or contemplating getting up a little earlier each day, my advice is to have some fun with it. You can do whatever you want to do.
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