Received this cool note from Camilla last week… π “I realized something – most of the pictures I have aren’t of the sun itself, but of the beauty the sun creates. Looking at the sun itself is painful and it isn’t always pretty, but when the sun is part of something else, it is inevitably Read more about Cloudy days make the best sunsets π¦[…]
If youβre going to compare yourself to anyone, compare yourself to yourself. Good questions to ask: 2 years ago, were you providing the same value as you are today? What are 5 things you are really good at, that most people around you aren’t? Would you really trade your awesome life for someone else’s (knowing Read more about Comparison syndrome π ββοΈ[…]
Today — you could be standing next to someone who is trying their best not to fall apart. Smiling on the outside but collapsing inside. So wherever you go and whatever you do today, lead with kindness and compassion π€ Have a lovely day! – Joel From Leila K… “Today is my last day in Read more about You never know who needs it…[…]
Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive that is Youer than You. ~ Dr. Seuss ***** Morning, y’all! Just a quick reminder to BE YOURSELF today. In your work meetings, share your fun ideas and don’t hold back your thoughts. If you have a dumb question, ask it! Read more about A quick reminder: Be yourself[…]
Dear everyone: Itβs been brought to my attention that some of you have been taking photos of beautiful sunsets, and *not sharing* them with me! π This hurts my feelings. Just kidding. Actually Iβm stoked to be getting the photos I do from you guys. It’s fun seeing where you’re from and a what it Read more about Here comes the sun, do do do do πΆ[…]
Yesterday I gave a little kid their first surfing lesson. (Actually, it wasnβt surfing at all β he just sat on a boogie board while I pulled the leash around in shallow water π. But we still had a lot of fun!) Anyway, it got me thinking… Sharing your passions in life is more fun Read more about Share your passions πββοΈ[…]
Did you know?…Β Water can absorb and store sound effects!? π If you play classical music to water as it freezes, the microscopic crystals it forms are beautiful and smooth. If you play death metal or heavy rock music, water forms ugly and chaotic crystals. Same with positive and negative word affirmations… If you play Read more about I’m pickin’ up good vibrations[…]
“Some people are so poor, all they have is money” Money is importantβ¦ But lifeβs true riches lie elsewhere: Relationships. Experiences. Memories. Love. Time. Peace. Wishing you a happy weekend, filled with the good stuff that money can’t buy. Love, Joel My homemade walnut bread turned out awesome!
Are you feeling extra charitable this morning? Want a chance to “win” one of these small drawings I made?… I’ve set up a silent auction and all the money will be donated to World Central Kitchen (provides fresh meals for displaced Ukrainian families) 12 drawings are up for grabs. Bidding starts at $1 each. Here’s Read more about Want one of these drawings?[…]
A “hater” is someone who discredits, devalues or downplays your accomplishments. Unfortunately, everyone experiences haters from time to time. Itβs sad, and it hurts. But you canβt let haters get you down or stop you from doing what you do. When a hater attacks you can: a) Spend your time worrying about it, and guessing Read more about And the haters gonna hate…[…]
I’ve sent this list out before — but it never gets old. Every time I see it there’s a couple things in my life I’m reminded of that I need to change. Successful People: – Want others to succeed too – Adapt to and welcome change – Share and discuss ideas – Take responsibility for Read more about Successful vs. Unsuccessful People[…]
“Look at that poor little tug boat, slaving away pulling the big lazy ship behind” βHuh? I see an awesome little tug boat!… Itβs out there inspiring and leading all the bigger ships!β βItβs sad those boats have to work on such a beautiful dayβ βWhat? They have the best work environment ever, doing what Read more about Look on the bright side[…]
“Sometimes we think really nice things about people, but we forget to *say* those things to them” Today: Tell someone you like… what you like about them. Sharing your nice thoughts will make their day (and yours maybe too π) Happy weekend! – Joel Woke up and found this on the side of my house. Read more about ComplimentsβRβus[…]
Fill in the blanky-blanks… Friday is _______ day! Today I will kick ass at ________. I am so grateful for ________. Today Iβm gonna help ______ get the ______ done. And when I get off work, Iβm gonna do a whole lot of _______!!!! Today is what you make it. (So, may as well make Read more about 5 for Friday[…]
“While you were waking up this morning, someone else out there was breathing their last breath.β Sorry for the morbid-ish quote so early in the morning… Actually this message isn’t about death… It’s about LIFE!! And how each day you wake up breathing is a blessing. And how we should take advantage of another opportunity Read more about Another awesome day to ______________[…]
Chatting with a therapist friend a while ago, he gave me some awesome advice dealing with kids. He said… “When you work with kids, try to enter their world before teaching, explaining things, or disciplining them. Kids see things completely different than you, so meet them in their world” Great advice. It’s been working well. Read more about Meet them in their world[…]
“I’m a big believer in luck. The harder I work, the luckier I get.” Happy St Patrick’s Day, my friends! Wishing you a fun day of working hard (and getting lucky π) – Joel From my penpal, Christina in Northern California… “I’m pretty sure I told you about the leprechaun traps my boys used to Read more about Work hard, luck hard.[…]
Sally had a habit of misplacing and losing her pens. She always bought cheap pens so she didn’t have to worry about replacement costs. Sally just assumed she was a “careless and forgetful person”, and lived her life that way. Then one day her friend suggested she try buying the most expensive pen she could Read more about More value, more effort placed.[…]
What do you want? How far along are you? What is in the way? Who is in the way? How do you feel? What is your very next *small* step? Can you take that small step today, or start this week? ***** Good morning and happy Wednesday! This question stack above has helped me refocus Read more about Quick Refocus Questions πββοΈ[…]
I heard a new word floating around recently… Stresslaxing. It means: “when relaxing activities make you even more stressed, because you’re not out working on whatever is making you stressed in the first place” Have you ever felt this? Like sometimes stressful work or problems in life start to invade your personal time and you Read more about Stresslaxing | A Few Things That Might Help[…]
Happy Friday my friends! Today’s mission: Share the love that was missing during the week. Make amends, let go of grievances, fill happiness gaps, cheer people up, share fun stories, and remind those around you that what they do matters. It’s a great day to have a great day. Make sure others know it too Read more about A great day –> to have a great day[…]
They say that βbeauty is in the eye of the beholderβ. If this is true, it means that beauty doesnβt exist on its ownβ¦ It is created by observers. Beauty is created by you, and me, and everyone else. So, really: everything in existence is beautifulβ¦ β¦itβs just waiting for the right observers to come Read more about You create the beauty[…]
“Never miss a good chance to shut up” – Will Rogers Reminders for today: Listen more than you speak. Try the 80/20 rule, listening 80% of the time and only yapping for 20% π€« Some things are better left unsaid. If you’re going to hurt someone, gossip, or spread negativity, it’s best to just bite Read more about Shaddapa your face.[…]
One day, the sun and the wind had a competition to see who was more powerful… The wind said to the sun, “you see that man down there in the park? Let’s use our powers to see who can make him remove his jacket first.” The wind tried first. He blew wind as hard as Read more about The sun vs. the wind…[…]
You’ve probably heard the saying “A rising tide lifts all boats”… Well, today’s challenge is: BE the rising tide. Be the one that lifts up everyone up. Like a lunar deity, you control the tide in your area. Use your encouragement and enthusiasm to lift everyone’s boat. (and sink the boats you don’t like! Aaaah, Read more about You float my boat[…]
“Create moments today, that you want to remember tomorrow” Today I’m feeling tired and lazy, and would love nothing more than to sit on the couch and watch movies all day. BUT, I’m also thinking, “How will the tomorrow Joel feel about this?” (Probably not great.) If we want to have fun memories later in Read more about Make the tomorrow you proud…[…]
Try this today: Shift the spotlight to other people. Highlight the things people around you are doing well. Big or small, people love when their contributions are validated and they receive praise. This simple (and rare) act of praising others is a habit of extremely likable people. Try it and see what happens in your Read more about Likable Habit #2[…]
If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. The truth is, we are social creatures and we live better lives when connected to other people. We perform better, we behave better, and we feel better at the end of the day. Cheers to an awesome Sunday, surrounding Read more about News team… Assemble! π¦ͺ[…]
“Look for the bare necessities The simple bare necessities Forget about your worries and your strife. I mean the bare necessities That’s why a bear can rest at ease With just the bare necessities of life” – Baloo, Jungle Book Hey y’all, it’s the weekend! And I’m thinking we should give away all our worldly Read more about Look for the –> bare necessities ππ[…]
Here’s a little secret to having a good Monday… You see, most people think they have to change who they are at work. Monday feels like when the βweekend youβ needs to morph back into the rigid βweekday youβ. But the secret to having a good Monday —> is to never stop being the weekend Read more about Bring the “weekend you” to work today…[…]
This was my favorite line from the movie Encanto… Stars don’t shine. They burn. When I first heard it I was like, “aaah, what the heck does that mean?” Then I started thinking… Most people look at stars and see perfect, beautiful, unreachable diamonds that twinkle in the sky. But in reality, stars are raging Read more about Stars don’t shine. They burn.[…]
“I changed my goal setting into day building. I build the best days I can. Meditation, workout, work, family time, rest time, etc. I know if I can build great days and stack them…I’ll reach all my goals, plus some.” This is from Cait Mack, another awesome daily blogger I’ve been reading lately. It got Read more about Build your best day[…]
There’s a common phrase we use in the personal finance community… “Zoom out” We use this when people stress about a “crash” in the stock market or losing money in a few bad trading days… It can feel like the whole world is ending! But if they just “zoom out” a little, they realize that Read more about When in doubt, zoom out. π[…]
“Wow! You look so cheery and happy this morning… I’m lucky to know such a positive person” “You’re an incredible problem solver. Thanks for teaching me new things all the time!” “I just want to say I’ve been noticing how much you care about XYZ, and your hard work really shows. Thank you for what Read more about National compliment day π[…]
It happened again yesterday. We had a massive wind storm and the palm trees outside our house got hammered. The wind blew off about 50 palm fronds, which flung all over our street and into the neighbors yards… I used to be annoyed at wind storms… They come out of nowhere, leave a huge mess, Read more about Shedding your old leaves[…]
Check out this photo someone sent me yesterday… On a quiet suburban street in Denver, a driver made a 3 point turn and unknowingly left 2 perfect love hearts traced in the snow. What a beautiful accident. This got me thinking: Love, truly is, all around us. Sometimes it’s obvious and sometimes it’s hidden. But Read more about A sneaky hidden love message[…]
“You can’t reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday’s junk” β Louise Smith Just a quick reminder… For every minute you spend worrying about stuff outside of your control, that’s 1 less minute you have to work on things that are inside your control. And for every minute you Read more about Yesterday’s Junk[…]
Hello and happy Friday!!! Sorry I’ve been MIA the past couple days… got some bad news — I tested positive for covid on Wednesday so I’ve been sleeping in and resting a lot. But the good news is: my symptoms are light, my fridge is full, I work from home, my neighbors/friends/family are all supportive, Read more about Bad news and good news…[…]
Got this email yesterday from my brother… “I was recently reading this article about how during Covid people have been going ape-shit at front-line workers. Long story short, people are insanely rude in public these days. Sad. But the silver lining is, now it’s even easier to totally make someone’s day. Customer service workers report Read more about Your niceness, stretching 2x as far…[…]
Happy MONDAY… It’s time to: M ake your coffee β O rganize positive thoughts β N arrate your task list β D ominate everything on it! β A nd donβt forget to call π Y our mother and tell her you love her β Have a great week, yβall! Make it the best possible. – Read more about Good morning, sunshines! βοΈ[…]
A little boy was bothering his mother after school one day… “Mommy, mommy, can you read me a story?” But the Mom was tired and didn’t have time… She needed a way to distract the persistent little boy. So the Mom grabbed a magazine sitting on the table and tore off the front cover. There Read more about The boy who put the world back together π[…]
“Bees donβt waste their time explaining to flies that honey is better than poop.” This weekend: Be like a bee. You have no time to waste and too much honey to enjoy. Happy Saturday! – Joel Cooper certainly knows how to relax!
Good morning everybody! I have an announcement to make… “It is very possible, that I will achieve greatness in my lifetime” How do I know that I will possibly achieve greatness? Firstly, because this fortune cookie told me so πππ And secondly… Because I wake up every day, look in the mirror and tell myself Read more about Let it be known…[…]
There’s a lot of pressure these days to do things NOW, achieve things ASAP, to 10X your goals, retire “early”, refashion yourself overnight, etc. Well today’s message is the opposite. Sometimes you’re ready, whenever you are ready. It’s OK to grow at your own pace. And grow you will. When you are ready. It’s only Read more about You’ll be ready –> when you are ready[…]
Came across this awesome graphic yesterday… courtesy of @lizandmollie It got me thinking about how progress comes and goes in waves. Sometimes progress is fast. Sometimes it’s slow. Sometimes it’s backwards π But, there are always more good days than bad ones, more forward days than backwards days, and more satisfaction than regrets. Progress is Read more about Doing your best — varies day to day[…]
A young runner was very excited. After months of intense training, he was running in his very first marathon. After the starterβs gun went off, he started with great enthusiasm, taking great strides and building a strong rhythm. However, after a few miles, he began to tire and he felt like stopping. βDonβt stop! If Read more about The Marathon Runner π[…]
A bottle of water at Costco is $0.25. The same bottle in the supermarket is worth about $0.50. Same bottle in a bar costs $2. In a good restaurant or hotel it can be worth up to $3. At an airport or on the plane, you may be charged $5. The bottle and the brand Read more about Your higher value…[…]
quiΒ·eΒ·tude (noun) a state of stillness, calmness, and quiet in a person or place. “it highlights her quietude and wise passivity” ***** Happy Sunday my friends! Today: Find your quietude. Silence isn’t empty. It’s actually full of answers. Have a good one, Joel New Years Day sunrise on the Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco, CA. Read more about Finding quietude π€«[…]
Did you know that… One single candle π₯Β can light 1000 other candles, without shortening its own life? Well, itβs the same with sharing happiness… One single happy person πΒ can light up the lives of 1000 other people, without decreasing their own happiness supply. So this is my challenge for you in 2022: Share Read more about This year, light 1000 candles π―[…]
Today is my birthday! I have officially reached life level #37! But, my age number doesn’t really mean much… Because I still play hide and seek with the neighborhood kids like I am 5 years old, I go to bed early like a 70 year old, I drink like I’m in my 20’s still, explore Read more about Life level #37! π[…]
“How can I make your life easier?” This is a really powerful question. Before your spouse leaves for work in the morning, ask them… βIs there anything I can do this morning to make your day easier?β At work while meeting with your bossβ¦ βwhat can I take off your plate to make your life Read more about My fav new question…[…]
It’s been an awesome year. Thank you everyone for reading, sharing, and replying to these morning emails. I love you all. In the spirit of reflection, I pulled a report to show the most popular emails (based on total view/share count) from the past 12 months. Out of the 350+ morning emails sent, here are Read more about Top 10 morning emails from this year…[…]
Mornin’ mornin’!! Remember my “outrageously generous” friend, Steve? Well he just sent me another cool story I wanted to share with you guys… “After our family church zoom call I got to thinking about how Mary and Joseph probably felt not being able to find shelter. So I called up a few extended stay motels Read more about Another “outrageously generous” story…[…]
Five Universal Truths of Human Interaction: All people want to be treated with dignity and respect. All people want to be asked rather than told. All people have a desire to know why they are being asked. All people want to be given options, rather than threats. All people want a second chance when they Read more about The gentle art of persuasion…[…]
I am tired and exhausted. (but maybe that’s a good thing… it means I’m working hard, playing hard and living life to the fullest πͺ) I feel anxious about traveling tomorrow. (I guess that’s a good thing too… It means I’m stepping out of my comfort zone and seeing to new places βοΈ) I have Read more about The Bright Sides[…]
If it makes you happy –> it doesn’t have to make sense to anybody else. Reminder for today: It doesn’t matter what others think. You get to create your own happiness, however you want to. Wishing you a happy, personalized, unapologetic and empowering Tuesday. Love, Joel Sunset at the beach this past weekend! As usual, Read more about A quote to live your life by…[…]
One day, a professor holds up a glass of water in front of the class. He asks everyone, “how heavy is this glass of water?” A few students throw out guesses “8oz, 12oz, etc”… The professor continues… “The absolute weight of the glass doesn’t matter, it depends on how long I hold onto it. If Read more about How heavy is a glass of water? π₯[…]
I love this quote… Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including YOU.β β Anne Lamott Iβm not sure who Anne Lamott is, but Iβm following her advice regardless π To do this weekend: Unplug. Disconnect. REST. Go offline… Everything will work again when you reboot next week. Read more about Time to unplugβ¦ π[…]
Happy Friday yβall! I received about a billion book recommendations yesterday! And after a lot of cutting and pasting and linking, here they all are in one big list! (Itβs more like ~50, not a billion π) These links are all Amazon links, but if you are interested in reading any books I definitely recommend Read more about Book Recommendations: For You, From You![…]
I came across this cool quote recently… “You’ll be the exact same person in 5 years, except for the books you read and the people you meet” Got me thinking about my dwindling book list — I need some recommendations for next year! What are you reading rn? Do you recommend it? Would you mind Read more about Read anything cool this year?[…]
Someone asked recently, “how can I stay positive and happy in every single situation?” Honestly, I think the answer is: you can’t. Everybody has bad days… The trick is not to dwell on them. Everybody has negative thoughts… The trick is not to speak them or act on them. Everybody gets angry and frustrated… The Read more about Can you be positive ALL the time?[…]
Here’s a scary but cool story I found recently called The Hope Experiment… πππ ***** During an extremely inhumane study at Harvard in the 1950s, Dr. Curt Richter placed rats in a pool of water to test how long they could tread water. π On average the rats would give up and sink after ~15 Read more about The Hope Experiment π[…]
Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is Read more about Life is life, fight for it.[…]
This past Friday I helped ring the closing bell at the New York Stock Exchange. Sorry I haven’t responded to those who emailed with questions… Here is a quick overview and some other trip photos. (I’m writing a more lengthy post for my other work blog which will drop this coming Friday! I’ll share the Read more about Some NYSE info and trip photos![…]
If you want to be normal —> do normal things. If you want to be exceptional —> do exceptional things. So, what’s it gonna be today? Are you going to follow the crowd, or break out and be different? (Hint: choose the latter — it’s way more fun! π) Make it a good one, – Read more about Are you “normal”?[…]
Living in the moment is a gift. (Thatβs why they call it the βpresentβ) Today: Gift yourself a great day. Focus on the people around you, the stuff you have in front of you, and the activity you are currently doing. You never get the same moment twice, so enjoy every second! Happy Sunday π Read more about π A gift to yourself π[…]
Morninβ happy people! Today Iβm sharing a snippet from a post over at The Frugal Girl. (h/t to J.Money for sharing with me!) πππ “Another tip thatβs both frugal and effective in boosting happiness: a decade ago I started a project where I took two empty jars, and put βgood momentsβ in one jar, and Read more about A frugal and effective happiness trickβ¦[…]
Woohoo! Itβs the best day of the month β> the 1st! And itβs the best month of the year β> December! Time to celebrate! My wife and I started this tradition ~6 years ago… To celebrate the 1st of each month. It began as a way to toast to our money wins, but has now Read more about It’s time to shell-ebrate π’[…]
Imposter syndrome… It happens everywhere, at every level of life. Trying something new?β¦ Imposter syndrome. Leveling up or getting a promotion?β¦ Imposter syndrome. Networking, making new friends, visiting new placeβs?β¦ Imposter syndrome. Everyone feels it. So…. Instead of feeling weird, running from it, or letting it hold me back, from this day forward, Iβm going Read more about Proud to be an “imposter”.[…]
When I was a kid, there was a house in my neighborhood that always had HUGE Christmas decorations each year on their front lawn. I mean, MASSIVE decorations. It must have taken them hours to set up and take down each year, not to mention the electricity it cost them to run. Later in life Read more about See a nicely decorated house? Give them $5.[…]
I believe that every person has an infinite supply of love and happiness inside of them. It’s like an energy source that never runs out. (Kind of like Iron Man’s arc reactor in his chest, except ours is invisible and supplies good feelings!) Anyway, because it’s a limitless resource, you never have to worry about Read more about Don’t be stingy π€[…]
Most people wander around life, trying to find “happiness”. They think it’s a thing, a place, a person, a promotion… they travel far and wide to find it. But the truth is, happiness is already inside them. It’s a direction, not a place. To unlock happiness you just gotta be present, and pay attention to Read more about Happiness is a direction, not a place.[…]
Woohoo! Happy Thanksgiving everybody! This is my 13th year celebrating Thanksgiving in the USA. Growing up in Australia, we didn’t have Thanksgiving and there’s actually no holiday like it down there. When I moved to the US, it quickly became my favorite holiday! Everyone sitting around, family and friends, sharing delicious food, giving thanks for Read more about Happy Spanksgiving! π[…]
What if IΜΆ ΜΆfΜΆaΜΆiΜΆlΜΆ I succeed? What if IΜΆ ΜΆlΜΆoΜΆsΜΆeΜΆ I win? What if IΜΆ ΜΆsΜΆuΜΆcΜΆkΜΆ I crush it? What if people dΜΆoΜΆnΜΆ’ΜΆtΜΆ ΜΆlΜΆiΜΆkΜΆeΜΆ love me? What if I’m tΜΆoΜΆoΜΆ ΜΆlΜΆaΜΆtΜΆeΜΆ perfectly on time? Today: Make sure your “what ifs” have the right ending. CONFIDENCE! πͺπ You got this! – Joel Absolute killer sunset last Read more about What if…?[…]
“If you don’t make time for your wellness, you will be forced to make time for your illness.” Happy Sunday friends! Today, I’m working on my wellness! Mental, physical, social and financial. Here’s a few things I got planned… 1 mile run + 20 push ups β Turning phone off for 2-3 hours β Spend Read more about Workin’ on the wellness[…]
Yesterday, a homeless man who lives in the alley behind my house asked me… “Excuse me, do you have an old blanket I might be able to have?” I told him I absolutely do! And I went inside my house to find one. I looked in our closets and garage, and noticed I actually have Read more about We are soooo blessed in life.[…]
Happy Friday, beautiful souls! Just a quick reminder for todayβ¦ Happiness is not about having everything you want in life. Itβs about wanting everything you already have. π‘ π π π¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦ β€οΈ βοΈ = π Wishing you a great day out there, appreciating your awesome stuff in life. Cheers! – Joel **Update: A reader sent Read more about Happiness is pretty simple[…]
Hey dudes! Got some fun news… My awesome employer is giving away a bunch ofΒ $25 gift cards so that you can use them to do good in your community! Just fill in the form here and tell them your fun ideas and how you’re going to use the money to improve the lives of others. Read more about Grab a “GivingCard”[…]
One day, an engineer was designing a power meter for navy battleships… But he kept dropping springs on the ground, and he noticed the springs would bounce, bounce, bounce all over the floor… And that’s how Richard James accidentally invented the slinky! ***** One day, two brothers accidentally left a pot of boiled grain on Read more about Honor thy Errors[…]
Hey all! Happy Tuesday! Sorry for going dark the last couple days, and thanks to those who reached out checking in. We had an emergency in my family, but thankfully everything is OK… Long story short, my Mum wasn’t feeling great on Sunday morning and went to the hospital. They found a brain aneurysm that Read more about Tough times, but itβs gonna be OK.[…]
Dr. Seuss was a smart dude. So I’m following his advice this weekend… βRead. Travel. Read. Ask. Read. Learn. Read. Connect. Read.β – Dr. Seuss (Only thing he left out was π·) Happy weekend y’all! Thank you for reading and always being supportive π – Joel Just a little pic in the middle of nowhere Read more about Dr. Seuss weekend advice[…]
Happy Friday lovely people! What a great day to celebrate some of the fun things going on in our lives. What’s new with you? Here’s a few cool things going on in my world I’m celebrating… – this week we received an offer on one of our rental properties. And although it was the lowest Read more about Friday celebration routine π₯³[…]
A friend sent me this recently… “I was reflecting on conditions where I do excellent work and times when I canβt seem to get there. I find that when I am expected to do great work, whether the client believes in me or my employer is enthusiastic about how I might help with an assignment Read more about Great Expectations[…]
Last week I got my wife’s bike serviced… and while I was there, the shop attendants weren’t very nice to me… I know nothing about bikes, so they joked/laughed in Spanish under their breath, overcharged me (is $110 too much to pay for a bike service? π€·ββοΈ), and on top of all that they didn’t Read more about A different perspective π²[…]
Would you ever say to your friend…? – you’re not very pretty – don’t try that new thing, you will probably fail – you’re not smart enough because you didn’t do enough school – don’t apply for that job… there are too many other candidates and you probably won’t get it. Would you ever say Read more about Be a better friend β to yourself![…]
When I first started blogging, I heard this statisticβ¦ 95% of bloggers give up in less than 1 year. This really excited me! I thought to myself, “You mean if I want to be in the top 5% of bloggers, all I have to do is exist after 1 year!?” So I made that my Read more about My secret to bloggingβ¦[…]
T oday is a giftβ¦ and itβs U p to you to make the most of E very second. So, S hine your brightest, D o your absolute best A nd make today a day Y ouβll be really proud of. Happy TUESDAY, – Joel My Dadβs band – The Rock Doctors!
Happy Monday! And happy 1st of the month!! A few reminders for today… 1) Mondays are the easiest days to stand out from the crowd. A smile, positive attitude, and a couple jokes up your sleeve… People need cheering up and today is a great opportunity to be a leader. 2) Do small things, in Read more about It’s gonna be a great week![…]
Happy Sunday! And happy Halloween! π Today begins DΓa de los Muertos, a beautiful celebration of life and death. When you’re out tonight trick-or-treating and going to parties, take a quick moment to remember your lost loved ones. One day someone will be remembering you the way you are remembering them. βThere is no Read more about A thin veil between this world –> and the next.[…]
When I was a little boy, I had lots of creativity and free time… –> Man, I wish I took more advantage of the freedoms I had back then! When I was a teenager, I still had lots of creativity and free time… –> Man, I wish I took more advantage of the freedoms I Read more about Let’s take more advantage, ey?[…]
Today, I’m activating “Ramming Speed!” I’ll be attacking my to-do list head on, bashing through obstacles and challenges. Problem at work? Ramming speed! Angry client? Ramming speed! Bad traffic on the freeway? Ramming speed! (on second thoughts, maybe no ramming while driving is better) Wishing you all a STRONG day ahead. You are an unstoppable Read more about Ramming speed![…]
I am such a WIMP. Last week I had a dentist appointment, but chickened out at the last minute and purposefully didn’t show up. (I need to get a filling replaced, but keep avoiding it due to the reason of: I am scared of needles.) Well, the dentist just sent me a $50 no-show fine. Read more about Let’s make a deal…[…]
What a lovely morning! Happy choo-choo chooseday! Today I’m choosing: β Focus on pain β Focus on gain! β Complain about problems β Celebrate my opportunities! β Let the day happen β MAKE my day happen! β Listen to classical music β It’s ROCK and ROLL time, baby! Wish you all a great day of Read more about Tuesday Chooseday[…]
What is prosocial activity? It means doing stuff that benefits others. Why do 2 minutes of it today? Because 2 minutes each day means after a full year you will have completed 12 hours of prosocial activity! (And doing tiny things every day creates a habit of helping others.) Try one of these today: smile Read more about Just 2 minutes of prosocial activity[…]
3 things Iβm celebrating this week: First off, my wife finished her first grad school class and got a score of… 100%!!! Yep, she’s awesome like that. π One of our real estate partnerships paid a huge dividend this month! Thank you bonkers real estate market! π€ Lastly, I found a new jacket. It was Read more about Friday Celebrations ππ₯³πΎπ[…]
unfuckwithable unΒ·fuckΒ·withΒ·aΒ·ble (adjective) When you are truly at peace and in touch with yourself, and nothing anyone says or does bothers you, and no negativity or drama can touch you. “Today, I’m feeling great and nobody will deter me from accomplishing my goals. I’m unfuckwithable.” ***** Sorry for the bad language!… But what a powerful Read more about Please excuse the bad language π€[…]
– Coffee β – Confidence β Thatβs all you need to start attacking the day. Coffee in one hand, and confidence in the other (or inside you somewhere). Cheers to a kick ass day ahead! Joel πͺ I brew my own coffee each morning, but most people don’t realize I brew my own confidence also.
Have a guess… Which one of the these habits tend to annoy people the most? when people talk too much when people show off when people are fake when people are too quiet I’m reading a really cool book called Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People. It is PACKED with awesome little tips on Read more about π yourself today[…]
Humans love new inventions and technology. The fact that I can check my email in the palm of my hand anywhere and anytime I want is truly fascinating. 20 years ago this capability didnβt exist! But just because I am able, does that mean that I should check my email everywhere I go and every Read more about The Autonomy Paradox[…]
Good morning and happy Saturday!! How ya’ll feeling out there? I read a really cool quote the other day — “be the rainbow in someone else’s cloud” Got me thinking… We all have the awesome ability to make a difference in someone else’s life. Most rainbows pop up unexpectedly, and instantly cheer people up. And Read more about Be someone’s rainbow this weekend π©π[…]